First Love and Pain....

 When I was 11 years old, I used to watch my friends playing cricket in our colony. They often asked me to join them, but I always refused because I believed I wouldn’t be able to play good cricket.

One of my friends finally convinced me to play cricket the next Sunday on the ground. Around six to seven friends gathered near my home, and we all went together. It was my first day ever playing cricket. That day, we played almost five matches. In the first four matches, I couldn’t bat well and got out for a duck each time. I only did fielding and didn’t even try bowling. But in the fifth match, when all the other players were out, I batted alone and scored 14 runs. Everyone cheered for me and told me that I could actually bat well. Then I jokingly asked them, ‘Okay, but what about bowling?’.

Then one of my friends advised me and said, ‘I will teach you.’ I was very happy that day, and I never knew that this new love for cricket would later give me so much pain and even sleepless nights.

 
After seven days of bowling practice, I was finally ready to deliver the ball in a match. I was very serious about winning. In my first over, I took four wickets, and my excitement shot up as if I was living a dream. Suddenly, all the batsmen started treating me like a top bowler and faced me only in defensive mode.

From 6th standard to 12th standard, I used to play cricket for 5–6 hours every day, no matter how many players were with me. One of my friends was the best bowler I have ever seen in my life, and I played cricket with him continuously for almost seven years. During one practice session, he challenged me and said, ‘You will get clean bowled on this ball.’ I looked at him as if saying, ‘Go away,’ but he actually bowled me out for the first time. My heart broke, and it hurt so much that I couldn’t sleep that night, wondering how this could happen. After that, he kept challenging me every few days, and the same result happened again and again. Each time, I felt the same pain and had the same sleepless nights, thinking about how to protect my wicket but failing every time. Finally, because of all this pressure and practice, I became a very good batsman who could hit the ball on the off-side as elegantly as ‘Dada’—Sourav Ganguly.

In those days, I used to behave just like Dada, and all my friends gave me that kind of importance. I owned my own ground, my farm, the ball, the stumps, and even the bat. Now, whenever those friends meet me, they praise me a lot about cricket. Most of them play for distribution–MSEB, IT companies, education field, and they always tell me that their cricket journey started because of me. They say this every time I visit my hometown.

I am not mentioning how I gathered the bat, ball, and stumps, but my dad used to give me money for tuition, and I skipped tuition and quietly bought all these things. What happened at home after that is better not mentioned here.;). but my parents always give me freedom and space about do whatever you want in life and career.

At that time, these things felt small to me, and even now they seem simple. But they had a big impact on others. When I think about it today, I realize that those days have passed, and it is very difficult to live those moments again.

Shaam se ankh men namin si hai

Aj fir ap ki kami si hai

  

Dafn kar do hamen ke saans mile 

Nabj kuchh der se thami si hai

Aj fir … 

Wakt rahata nahin kahin tikakar 

Isaki adat bhi adami si hai

Aj fir … 

 

Koi rishta nahin raha fir bhi

Ek tasalim laajami si hai

Aj fir …

My observation about -Personal, Vibes & Energy.

 These were the signs & moments that made me feel something special-story teller using AI

• She regular smiles at me .
• Her whole body turns toward me when i walk, and her face lights up with a genuine, warm smile—her eyes showing their best expression.
• While doing lunch at work at cafeteria, she intentionally lets her odhani slide over my head.
• She shows me how to wash a teacup in an interesting, playful way.
• During lunch, she gently looks at my lunchbox with a sweet smile.
• You often offered me your home‑cooked tiffin, and I noticed it every time. I didn’t accept because I felt you needed it just as much. Looking back, I realize my silence may have seemed arrogant, and I’m sorry—it was never my intention.
• "Visal tum kuch nahi karte","bhendi sasti ho gayi hai", "andhar me kaun rehata","ja jagewar jaun bus" "i am not interested in you". "i will take action against you on email" "bhavna pohchlya"is best sentence i listened.
• In the cafeteria, she casually says, “Maza koni mitra-bitra nahi,” (I don’t have any friends).
• If someone else shows interest in me and she notices it, she expresses her feelings through subtle eye expressions with sarcastic smile.
• excuse me.....kya re..... 
• If I had been born on the 3rd under the Libra sign, I would have written a movie script, because I believe they are the best writers.
• One day, I noticed a small kitten quietly following me. Later, I realized the reason—it was frightened of a bigger cat and was looking for a safe place. That’s why the little kitten chose to sleep near me. I didn’t plan it; I simply gave it shelter without even thinking.
  When I shared this incident with my friend, you listened so attentively. What truly astonished me was what followed—after hearing my story, you started bringing home two or three cats at a time. That moment made me smile, because it felt like my love for cats had quietly inspired you too.
• One day, we both reached the office at the same time. We looked at each other, and suddenly a gust of wind blew a ticket from my hand towards her—as if the air itself was being naughty. you watched this and do follow me signal  to me.
• no one notices my new id shoes,
• You move your purse to make space for me,
  -After my smoke break, I enter—and you block my way and behave like ;),
  -At the cafe, you present‑mindedly play with your sandal using your foot fingers, 
  -You quietly build walls of safety around me & all my silly mistakes, misbehavior r soluble that time , 
  -While I talk to someone, I witness a silent Burnol moment. 😉,
  - i visited temple and entered in office with tilak on my head, the same mirroring with you.
  -After a long day at work, I finally stopped an auto with some effort just for myself. Then you came from behind and took the same auto—without even asking me for a lift.
• She copies my sitting style during lunch.
• When I wished you “Happy Gudi Padwa,” you didn’t just reply—you shared the importance and significance of the festival so thoughtfully while in cafe to your colleagues, in front of me. It felt meaningful, because otherwise festival wishes are usually limited to impersonal emails, without any real exchange at that time.
• I knew exactly which Marathi song you were humming while looking at me.
• Whether it’s something small or important at work, you praise my efforts in such a thoughtful way. It makes me smile and wonder—did you learn this somewhere, or do you simply understand me that well?
• “I remember that day when we happened to sit facing each other during the tea break. Vasant rutu had just begun, and we were enjoying our tea. I was quietly watching you, and at the same moment a koyal started singing ‘kuhu‑kuhu’. You smiled, and your eyes began searching for the source of that soothing sound.”
• During office load-shedding time, she watches how I clean my sweat head and smiles like an angel.
• She is a workaholic, and at that time I was traveling 3–4 hours daily. When she had time, I didn’t—and when I had time, she didn’t.
• The way you called my Name. 
• I met her on a platform called Her, using her actual name. After both of us smiled at each other in silence, she softly said, “Shall I go?” and I simply nodded.
• In life, likes and dislikes don’t matter much—if someone doesn’t have time for you, it simply means you’re not their priority. That’s the truth.(Nope, tu samor ja like this reply)
• “And one day, I expressed my feelings to you—hoping it was the best way, the most sincere way I could. All my positive senses were directed towards you. Our chat began with full energy, everything flowing beautifully… and then suddenly something like ‘I don’t like this’ came from you. In that moment, I completely shattered. My mind froze, every neuron felt displaced, and it was as if a movie suddenly began dropped like a flop show…” itni si bhi na chali..

All time favt.

होशवालों को खबर क्या बेखुदी क्या चीज हैं
इश्क कीजिये फिर समझिये, जिन्दगी क्या चीज हैं

उनसे नज़रे क्या मिली, रोशन फिजायें हो गयी
आज जाना प्यार की जादूगरी क्या चीज हैं

खुलती जुल्फों ने सिखाई, मौसमो को शायरी
झुकती आँखों ने बताया, मयकशी क्या चीज हैं

हम नजर से कह ना पाए, उन से हाल-ए-दिल कभी
और वो समझे नहीं, ये खामोशी क्या चीज हैं

इतना ना मुझ से तू प्यार बढ़ा, के मैं एक बादल आवारा
कैसे किसी का सहारा बनू, मैं खुद बेघर बेचारा
इसलिए तुझ से मैं प्यार करू, के तू एक बादल आवारा
जनम जनम से हूँ साथ तेरे, हैं नाम मेरा जल की धारा

मुझे एक जगह आराम नहीं, रुक जाना मेरा काम नहीं
मेरा साथ कहा तक दोगी तुम मैं देस बिदेस का बंजारा

ओ नील गगन के दीवाने, तू प्यार ना मेरा पहचाने
मैं तब तक साथ चलू तेरे, जब तक ना कहे तू मैं हारा

क्यों प्यार में तू नादान बने, एक पागल का अरमान बने
अब लौट के जाना मुश्किल हैं, मैने छोड़ दिया हैं जग सारा

Mysql query for save output in excel sheet

<?php
error_reporting(0);
$hostname='localhost'; 
$user='root';
$pass='';
$dbase='database_name';
$connection = mysql_connect("$hostname" , "$user" , "$pass"); 
$db=mysql_select_db($dbase , $connection);

$filename="filename_".date('d-m-Y')."_info.csv";
$date= date("Y-m-d");
$yesterday = date('Y-m-d', strtotime($date. " - 1 day"));

$qry= "SELECT 'field1','field12',DATE_FORMAT(in_date,'%d-%m-%Y')
as in_date,TIME_FORMAT(in_time,'%H:%i'),DATE_FORMAT(out_date,'%d-%m-%Y') 
as out_date,TIME_FORMAT(out_time,'%H:%i'),shift,remark 
FROM tablename where in_date='$yesterday'
INTO OUTFILE 'c:/foldername/$filename' FIELDS TERMINATED BY ','
ESCAPED BY '''' LINES TERMINATED BY '\n'";


$result = mysql_query($qry,$connection);
if (!$result) {
    die('Invalid query: ' . mysql_error());
}else
echo "Please check file in c:/foldername/$filename";
?>

Start WAMP server and run index file through batch file

Create wamp.bat file and copy following code in it.
this code at localhost will start wamp apache server on specific time as per you schedule it. 
and run this specific file, here index.php file run automatically for the specific purpose , as per your 
requirement.

 
start C:\wamp\wampmanager.exe

start C:\wamp\bin\php\php5.3.13\php.exe -f  C:\wamp\www\index.php

Connect FTP through Batch file and transfer file

Create copy.bat file and copy following code
this code will connect ftp server with its user name and password
this code transfer the local files on to the FTP server, Note this batch file need to scheduled on
windows schedule task to run this specific task

 
@ftp -i -s:"%~f0"&GOTO:EOF

open 210.212.176.115

FTP-Username 

FTP-Password

lcd c:\WEIGHBRIDGE

binary

mput "*.*"

::!move c:\chpdata\data\*.* c:\chpdata\backupdata\

disconnect

bye



pause