Love is a painful, but the pain is certainly a blessing. Love is painful
because love brings growth.Love demands , transforms and is a
painful because love gives you a new birth.
Love brings you hearth into relatioship and when the hearth is in relationship -
and when the heart is in relationship there is always pain. If you avoid the pain
you will miss all pleasure of life. with love you will become human; you stand erect
on earth.with love you are vertical.
With love are problems.But with problems is growth-the greater the problem
the greater the opportunity.More and more pain, too.
That's why many people never love-it is so painful. They never become vertical
they like to be a normal ;).
Love never shatters you completely.It simply shatters you a little, a little bit.
It shatters a crust of your ego,but the center of the ego remains intact.Then
there is a deeper pain , deeper than love, and that is of prayer-it shatters you
utterly.It is death.When you have learnt how to love, and you have learnt that
that the pain that love brings is a blessing in disguise,it is beatiful , then you become
able and you take another step(note: here task is not yet completed :) ) -that step
is prayer(sachhe mann sein.....).
All lovers feel a little miserable. They would like to disappear completely,but it is not
possible in human relationship. Human relationship is a limited.But one learns from it
that there is a possibility:if it can happen so much in a human relationship,how much more
can happen in a relationship with the Divine?
Love makes you ready to take the final jump, the quantum leap. That's what I call prayer
,or you can call it meditation .You have to disappear for existence to be.
Love is a training ground , a school to learn first lessons - of the beauty , of the blessings
and benediction of disappearance; to learn that pain is blessed.
So when you are in love , or when love arises, cooperate with it, don't try resisting.
People come to compromise. The basic problem that i have been looking at is that
lovers by and by come to a compromise.
The compromise is: You don't heart me , i will not heart you. That what marriage is.Then
people become settled(life mein settle hone ko mangata hai!!!!) . They become so afraid
of pain that they say "Don't heart me and i will not heart you" but then when pain disappers,love also disappears.They exists together.
When you are in love ,love hearts . it hearts terribly.
But never resist, never create any barriers for pain . allow it and by and by you will see that
it was a wrong interpretation. It is not a really pain.It is just that something is going so deep in you that you interpret it like a pain.you dont know anything else.You are only aware of pain in your past life,in your past experience,whenever something penetrate deep , you interpret it as a
pain.
Don't use a word pain .when love and love's arraow goes deep into your heart,close your eyes and don't use words -just see what it is , and you will never see it is a pain .you will see it is a
benediction .You will be tremendously moved by it .You will feel joyous.
Don't use words.When something new happens to you, always allow a deep look into
it without any language.
Talk:Osho
Source:THE SPEAKING TREE
because love brings growth.Love demands , transforms and is a
painful because love gives you a new birth.
Love brings you hearth into relatioship and when the hearth is in relationship -
and when the heart is in relationship there is always pain. If you avoid the pain
you will miss all pleasure of life. with love you will become human; you stand erect
on earth.with love you are vertical.
With love are problems.But with problems is growth-the greater the problem
the greater the opportunity.More and more pain, too.
That's why many people never love-it is so painful. They never become vertical
they like to be a normal ;).
Love never shatters you completely.It simply shatters you a little, a little bit.
It shatters a crust of your ego,but the center of the ego remains intact.Then
there is a deeper pain , deeper than love, and that is of prayer-it shatters you
utterly.It is death.When you have learnt how to love, and you have learnt that
that the pain that love brings is a blessing in disguise,it is beatiful , then you become
able and you take another step(note: here task is not yet completed :) ) -that step
is prayer(sachhe mann sein.....).
All lovers feel a little miserable. They would like to disappear completely,but it is not
possible in human relationship. Human relationship is a limited.But one learns from it
that there is a possibility:if it can happen so much in a human relationship,how much more
can happen in a relationship with the Divine?
Love makes you ready to take the final jump, the quantum leap. That's what I call prayer
,or you can call it meditation .You have to disappear for existence to be.
Love is a training ground , a school to learn first lessons - of the beauty , of the blessings
and benediction of disappearance; to learn that pain is blessed.
So when you are in love , or when love arises, cooperate with it, don't try resisting.
People come to compromise. The basic problem that i have been looking at is that
lovers by and by come to a compromise.
The compromise is: You don't heart me , i will not heart you. That what marriage is.Then
people become settled(life mein settle hone ko mangata hai!!!!) . They become so afraid
of pain that they say "Don't heart me and i will not heart you" but then when pain disappers,love also disappears.They exists together.
When you are in love ,love hearts . it hearts terribly.
But never resist, never create any barriers for pain . allow it and by and by you will see that
it was a wrong interpretation. It is not a really pain.It is just that something is going so deep in you that you interpret it like a pain.you dont know anything else.You are only aware of pain in your past life,in your past experience,whenever something penetrate deep , you interpret it as a
pain.
Don't use a word pain .when love and love's arraow goes deep into your heart,close your eyes and don't use words -just see what it is , and you will never see it is a pain .you will see it is a
benediction .You will be tremendously moved by it .You will feel joyous.
Don't use words.When something new happens to you, always allow a deep look into
it without any language.
Talk:Osho
Source:THE SPEAKING TREE
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